In any social situation, you naturally benefit from some interactions more than others. When I met “Linda”, I experienced my first friendship with someone living with dementia. I feel it’s important to interact with all older adults, even those living with dementia, as equals. In my care, there is no way I am going to act in a condescending manner, I am there to support them.

When I began my creative programming work during the pandemic, I was utilizing every ounce of creativity I could and was putting the “f” in u-n. I wanted to make sure that the residents enjoyed themselves. All around me, the world was most literally stagnant (even though everyone was panicking). I needed to wear my hero-cape and intervene, and try to save the day!

“Linda” slowly warmed to me throughout our creative programming work. Although, living with dementia, it took her twice as long to do things, and sometimes she became emotionally distressed, it was clear she enjoyed encountering my playful and authentic nature as I provided creative engagement. To this day, it touches my heart when I see “Linda” around the long- term care center, and her eyes light up when she sees me. Although the observations of “Linda’s” engagement were just that; observations that were not data-based, these insights are what inspired me to want to study, via an anonymous survey, the effects of creative programming on socialization and mental levels.

From the experiences that I had with her, it was clear to me that the work that I was doing was benefiting “Linda”. I noticed her warming up to others, and the way she carried herself began to change. She began to smile more and engage in a more positive manner. I think “Linda” really sensed that I cared about her well being, and that I touched her on a very authentic, spiritual and human level. Witnessing the journeys of residents like Linda is one of the reasons I continue to work in long- term care.